tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3908255763201968209.post1785330080394618240..comments2023-03-29T04:13:00.636-07:00Comments on Our Family: Potty Training--Help us!!Hollyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00516574389585294678noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3908255763201968209.post-48909334641547817382013-02-20T20:23:36.665-08:002013-02-20T20:23:36.665-08:00By four and a half (age when she quit wetting the ...By four and a half (age when she quit wetting the carpet), kids have a pretty good memory. Even if you do get your little ones out of diapers before your twins come, they may want to be back in diapers for a season when new siblings enter the home. Having a new baby(or two)has to work itself into a new normal. Margarethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06726556292993151959noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3908255763201968209.post-87015005285172045042013-02-20T11:30:01.219-08:002013-02-20T11:30:01.219-08:00I don't think the clothes idea would work, bec...I don't think the clothes idea would work, because she would just remove any wet/dirty clothes and be content to walk around naked. I am still working on Sally, and she has been doing a great job, so maybe that idea will work. I think the last idea might be the best one though. Because the issue is just her personal motivation. We need to get that to kick in somehow.Hollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00516574389585294678noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3908255763201968209.post-36861193516669667742013-02-20T11:28:13.927-08:002013-02-20T11:28:13.927-08:00This sounds like it might be the ticket. I talked...This sounds like it might be the ticket. I talked to Ryan about it, and I think he agrees. Thanks for taking the time to respond!Hollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00516574389585294678noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3908255763201968209.post-17022409778834842112013-02-20T11:27:28.998-08:002013-02-20T11:27:28.998-08:00That is so interesting! I can't believe she c...That is so interesting! I can't believe she could remember why she continued to go on the carpet. I know she'll learn sooner or later. I just wish it was sooner so I don't have to deal with it when the twins arrive!Hollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00516574389585294678noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3908255763201968209.post-15321667977563413522013-02-20T06:18:24.195-08:002013-02-20T06:18:24.195-08:00I had the opposite problem with one of my girls--s...I had the opposite problem with one of my girls--she got the #2 quickly (between 2 and 3 years old) when I offered candy for each poop in the potty. In fact, she loved candy so much, she somehow managed to shift herself from a one-time-a-day pooper to a 4-times-a-day pooper! But the #1 was a problem. I had her in cloth diapers, and she was dry all night and whenever I would take her out to the store, so I knew she could control her bladder, but she would go at least a once a day on a carpeted floor. And she was four!!! I asked her about it years later, and she said it made her feel really grown-up when I would make her clean it up! I had been trying to do natural consequences, but she was craving the attention she got when I would supervise her blotting and cleaning. Sometimes our best laid plans are just off the mark. I would encourage you to do what you can and don't worry about the rest. Training the younger child might be your ticket. My mother and aunts used to always say, "They do grow up." My daughter did grow up, and we are celebrating with her as she got an acceptance into vet school a couple of days ago. <br />Congratulations on your twin news! That was such a cute video! Margarethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06726556292993151959noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3908255763201968209.post-47388626966441691602013-02-19T12:31:32.236-08:002013-02-19T12:31:32.236-08:00Came over to read your exciting news and then ende...Came over to read your exciting news and then ended up staying and read this post. I have talked to so many friends who were uber-stressed about their 3 year old's inability to really commit to the potty! It seems to me from listening to others that the key is to just give up on it. Tell her you're done asking her if she wants to use the potty. You're done with stickers, prizes, etc. If she wants a diaper she can have it. Just completely let her revert back to diapers if she wants. Tell her that she will someday learn to use the potty and she can let you know when she's ready. Keep reading books about pottying, etc. Keep letting her see you use the potty. But otherwise, just totally back off. With 3 year olds everything is a power struggle, it seems. But if they feel like it's in their control it becomes more appealing. She really WILL learn to do it someday. No five year old went to kindergarten in diapers, you know? Chances are, if you can let go of your stress for a little while, she will just feel less pressure, and it will click. Caelanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3908255763201968209.post-68575040928107734042013-02-19T12:24:19.781-08:002013-02-19T12:24:19.781-08:00Oh dear. I have a few thoughts, but you've pro...Oh dear. I have a few thoughts, but you've probably already considered them...<br />1. You said, "After she goes on herself, she doesn't like it, and wants to get cleaned up, but she'll just do it again the next time. So, she is staying dry all day in panties/diapers,..." So, it sounds like you are cleaning her up and giving her new clothes, maybe even re-dressing her? What if you started just giving her one set of clothing each day, and letting her know when that is wet, she won't get a new set of panties/clothes until bedtime that night. Natural consequences. The first few days she might have to go around wet, or naked on bottom, for part of the day, but maybe it would motivate her to "take care" of her clothes by not peeing/pooping in them? <br />2. Peer pressure is powerful. If you can get Sally trained, I think Sophie will train on her own. That worked for you! :-) Also, you might try having a little playmate her age who is potty trained over for a play day. (or a group of them?) Their example might inspire Sophie to imitate her friends.<br />3. Always a possibility that there is a physical or psychophysical problem. Have you asked your pediatrician if that might be the case for Sophie?<br />4. Stubborn children (bless them) always resist what they know their parents want. You might consider just being totally nonchalant about it with Sophie. Maybe even up the attention at bit on Sally with it, but make it a non-issue with Sophie for a while. When you back off, and Sophie gets a chance to make it HER thing, you might have better luck?Travettahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07847647511460839120noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3908255763201968209.post-75405311964817245822013-02-19T12:22:38.396-08:002013-02-19T12:22:38.396-08:00This comment has been removed by the author.Travettahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07847647511460839120noreply@blogger.com